take a slow, contemplative moment to notice how many events you cannot explain that happen in your life so frequently you take them for granted...
what is actually happening when you light a candle? ...not so much your actions but the other part. how is it that you collaborated with nature to create fire? what is fire? in this process, this creating experience, how much was handled for you? by whom (or what)?
how many other common events in your life are magical collaborations where something is created out of nothing and you do the least amount of the actual work? how much is effortlessly handled for you daily?
what else might be available for you to experience, in effortless collaboration, if you disregard the urge to explain to yourself how it happens?